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Independence and Romance: How to Stay Yourself in a Relationship
If you’re like most, you grew up with a very set image of how to
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How to Flirt With Class Online
We’ve all seen the horror stories. Receiving nude photos after a few minutes of texting,
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Dealing With Infidelity: How to Catch Your Spouse in the Act
Infidelity is something that happens in most marriages. Statistics show that 41% of marriages have
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7 Toxic Relationships You Should Remove From Your Life If You Want To Find True Happiness
All relationships have their ups and downs. That’s normal. Except of course, sometimes it’s not
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7 Topics to Talk About If You Want Your Relationship to Last
Fact: No relationship can withstand the test of time without honest communication and a willingness
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56 Questions to Ask a Guy That Will Reveal If He's a Keeper or Not
Dating and relationships... With all the uncertainties and possibilities it can be a bit of
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Being Alone vs Fixing a Relationship: 4 Things You Should Always Keep in Mind...
We definitely agree with this and have touched on a few of the points Judge
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Is He Flirting With Me? Here Are 12 Signs That He Definitely Is!
Sometimes, when a man catches your eye, and you begin to interact, it can be
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How to Draw Him in When He Pulls Away (It Is Possible!)
Let me guess—in the beginning he pursued you. He was gung ho and you were
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Chivalry Isn't Dead: 9 Old Fashioned Habits Good Men Are Keeping Alive
Quick fact: Anyone who says chivalry is dead is outright lying, joking, or inadvertently feeding
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Am I in Love? 9 Subconscious Behaviors That Reveal You Probably Are...
A philosopher once said "there is always some madness in love. But there is also some
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7 Relationship Goals All Happy Couples Accomplish
Achieving a strong, stable, and lasting relationship can be hard work. A man and woman
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The 8 New Love Truths You MUST Learn... (If You Ever Want to Have a Relationship That Last)
Love is a tricky topic, often romanticized by modern fairy tales and overestimated by those
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Dear Formerly Abused: Trust Is The Key...
There are plenty of ways an abuser is served their exit papers to leave our
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7 Non Sexual Things That Make a Woman Incredibly Sexy to Men
Hey, what's up BlackLoveAdvice.com fam? I'm back once again with a double dose of relationship
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This Is What Stops Most Women From Finding the Relationship They Deserve...
Settling... So many black women are being told to do it... So many black women
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How to Use a Man's Love of Sports to Your Dating Advantage...
Being the youngest member of my family meant that I rarely got a chance to
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Is Your Partner Selfish in the Game of Love? | Huffington Post
You might as well face it, you're addicted to love. Or sex. Or it could happen. We fall into these bad habits because our search for a mate grows so co...
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5 Ways To Get Better At Grown-Up Love | Huffington Post
“If you don’t let me go to the movies today, I’m not going to love you anymore.” So said my 5-year-old son, normally one of the more open-hearted h...
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Are You the Other Woman? 5 Signs He’s Not Really Single
Dating nowadays can be a struggle. We’ve seen our friends get hurt by cheaters, and
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Tired of the #SingleLife: When Will I FINALLY Find "THE ONE"?
When will I find the one? A question nearly all single woman ask themselves from
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The Secret Thoughts Men Have About Sex, Commitment, Cheating, and Finding "The One"...
If you're like most women, you're frustrated with men, dating, and relationships... and for good
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3 Ways To Maintain Your Relationship When Your Spouse Hurts You | Huffington Post
3 WAYS TO MAINTAIN YOUR RELATIONSHIP WHEN YOUR SPOUSE HURTS YOU "Fine. I'll just do it myself." Jane stormed out of the livi...
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9 Bedroom Habits That Could Save Your Marriage | Huffington Post
Don't let smartphones come between you and your spouse.
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4 Things A Man Does When He's Unhappy With His Relationship
Men who are dissatisfied with their relationships are horrible at hiding it. Often they send
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9 Non Verbal Signs He Loves You...
Men are elusive creatures. Iconic for their mystery, especially in the love department, women are
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The Secret to Making Better Decisions in Your Love Life....
So I'm sitting here, early morning thinking of how I almost gave it all up.
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Downside of dating a beauty: If a woman's more attractive than her man, the relationship may be doomed | Daily Mail Online
When you're in love with a beautiful woman, you really do have to watch your friends. However, having a handsome husband or boyfriend is no barrier, according to a study.
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The 3 Types of Relationships: The REAL Secret to Finding True Love...
Hey, what's up ladies. I haven't posted to BlackLoveAdvice.com in a minute. After completing my
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6 Tips To Make Your Wedding Elegant But Affordable
I gotta be the one you touch, baby I gotta be the one you love....How’s
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6 Ways to Show Him You're the One
If you’re in a relationship long enough to know your boyfriend is your soul-mate and
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Independent Woman Syndrome - Relationship Advice
Independent Woman Syndrome. That’s right ladies; some of you have a disease and don’t even know it. It is hindering you in relationships ...
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Is A Woman’s Independence Destroying Black Relationships?
I know all women want security, but not all women require a man to pay
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The Unconscious Attraction to Abuse in Relationships
When I pose the question to clients, “Could it be possible that you are attracted
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The Key to Keeping Him Insanely Addicted to You...
These days, many women admittedly find that they can no longer keep a man’s attention.
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Couples Who Play Together, Stay Together | Huffington Post
Married couples who play together, stay together.
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5 Ways To Create More Harmony In Your Relationships | Huffington Post
If you want to create more peace in your relationships, it starts with your relationship with yourself. The relationship of your dreams, where there's au...
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Flirting as a Way to Boost Your Feminine Energy... Try It...
A modern woman’s life is active and fast. There are so many things to do
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How to Stop an Argument in Its Tracks
If you have ever experienced an argument that lasted all day or all night you
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7 Things a Woman Should Master Before Trying to Find a Man
Finding true love is an experience that most women desire in their lives. It helps
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5 Signs Your Relationship Is Falling Victim To “Grass Is Greener Syndrome”
I haven’t done any writing lately referencing the Bible but I think I’ll go back today. You see, this is a subject that is close to my heart. I jumped right on it when my content manage…
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Feeling Unappreciated? 8 Signs He Takes You For Granted
Let’s face it, ladies. The two worst feelings in a relationship are: 1. Being cheated on. and, 2. The feeling that you are being taken for granted by the man you are dedicating your time, love, and…
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10 Subtle Signs of Emotional Abuse - eHarmony Advice
If you’ve never been involved with a cunning, pathological lying, narcissistic, abusive partner, you may not know what you’re dealing with. When you date an abusive personality, you may buy into his charm, braggadocio, and phony façade while downplay
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Make Him Chase You Instead. Here’s How…
Warning: The tips I’m about to reveal will be shocking and controversial to some. Viewer discretion is advised. So you’re playing the game of cat and mouse, steadily chasing the man in …
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4 Things A Man Does When He’s Unhappy With His Relationship
Men who are dissatisfied with their relationships are horrible at hiding it. Often they send little signals that something is wrong without even realizing it, growing colder and more detached as ti…
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How to Stop Loving an Abuser and Get Out Of an Abusive Relationship
Abuse comes in many forms. It can be physical, but it can also be emotional. An abusive person is someone who may call you names and make you feel worthless, puts you down and tries to control you.…
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Why Forgiveness is Necessary When it Comes to Love - eHarmony Advice
We’ve all heard the saying “forgive and forget,” but how many of us truly know what this means or how to do it? Forgiveness involves engaging with a complex series of emotions – anger, pain, frustration, and fear – which most of us try to avoid.
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You Know You Doing To Much!!!! 7 Signs That You Dress Too Sexy!!!!
If you’re about to go out one evening and you find yourself standing in front of your big mirror, admiring your short skirt and telling yourself just how hot and sexy you are, maybe it’s time to re…
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Shy Girl Flirting Tips- 6 Ways A Shy Girl Can Show A Guy She’s Into Him
Why is it that when it comes to life and love in general, we tend to believe our worst reviews? We need to admit it out loud; most of us single ladies live with the fear of being alone for the rest…
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7 Signs That It’s Really Over
They say a breakup is like a broken mirror; it’s better to leave it broken than hurt yourself trying to fix it. But how can you really tell you’ve reached that point of no return and your relations…
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6 Tips for Couples That Want to Avoid the “Seven Year Itch”
What exactly is the infamous “Seven year itch?” In relationship lore, this milestone in a marriage marks a certain turning point where you’re tired of the relationship and in a rut. It’s usually wh…
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How to Make Every Date Worthwhile -
Most online daters have a general idea of the qualities they’re seeking in a boyfriend or girlfriend—smart, funny, athletic, etc. But couples therapist Peter Pearson says the most important factor is often overlooked: your date’s values. Pearson exp
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‘Is Self-Doubt Harming My Chance of Finding Love?’ -
Dear Sara: A while back, I had a “come to Jesus” moment with a [single] friend/mentor when she was implying, yet again, that marriage is a sign of spiritual maturity. I argued it was luck. I said, “Tell me one thing a happily married woman (I de
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Long Distance Relationship Advice: How Can You Make It Work When He’s Not Around?
“What’s the point in doing this when we both know it’s never going to work?” If your long distance relationship has reached this point of no return, it’s time you did something about it. Step…
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7 Reasons You Should Thank the Person That Broke Your Heart
The old saying goes: “All is fair in love and war.” But for the person who has experienced heartbreak, nothing about love gone sour can seem fair at all. This is especially the case whe…
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Can I borrow $20.00? (6 signs that he’s using you for your money)
I have been waiting to write this article for a long time. I have seen a lot of women taken advantage of by losers who wanted nothing more but to drive their cars, have a place to stay, and use the…
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Why Do Men Cheat? Here Are the Top 10 Reasons They Gave Us…
Some people claim that ALL men cheat… This is a debate that has raged on for years and shows no signs of cooling off. Do all men cheat? I don’t necessarily agree with that assumption. B…
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Making Long-Distance Marriage Work
Put in some effort and a long-distance marriage can thrive.
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Why Do Men Cheat? Here Are the Top 10 Reasons They Gave Us…
Some people claim that ALL men cheat… This is a debate that has raged on for years and shows no signs of cooling off. Do all men cheat? I don’t necessarily agree with that assumption. B…
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Avoid At All Cost: 6 Signs of an Immature Boy That Hasn’t Grown Into a Man
What it do, ladies? The companionship connoisseur is back again. You can also call me the affection professor, the manhood mechanic, or better yet just call me your boy Romy Rome. It’s been a…
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Don’t Over-Think, Just Remember Who You Are
Women… We are natural problem solvers. We like to analyse problems we encounter in life until we get a good grasp of them, and if we are honest, we often like to do the same thing to the men …
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10 Outrageously Jaw Dropping Reasons People Have Filed for Divorce
Written By: Quentin Witt Today, divorce seems more common than marriage itself. Rates sky rocket across the nation as couples quickly go from their I do’s to an astounding I don’t. From…
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How to Make Your Relationship Cheater Proof- Part 2: Why Men Cheat
Written By: Quentin Witt They say that knowing is half the battle. So exactly why do men cheat? There are a variety of reasons, but the ones listed below are the three most prominent. Watch out for…
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5 Things Your Children Need to Hear You Say After a Divorce
Written By: Natasha Moore There’s nothing fun about going through a divorce. The wonderful relationship you once had is over. That’s very hard to deal with by itself. With children in the mix…
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How To Love A Man (8 Ways To Show Him You Really Love Him)
Written By: Naomi Epps Making a man fall for you is hard work, but loving a man is a piece of cake, right? I hate to disappoint you, but no. Not always, at least. Contrary to popular belief, men ca…
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The 5 Laws for Introducing Your New Man to Your Children Without Friction
Written By: Naomi Epps Dating is tough enough, but when you’re a single mom, it’s safe to say things are a bit tougher. Having kids is an incredible blessing, but trying to fit them int…
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Feeling Unappreciated? 8 Signs He Takes You For Granted
Written By: Naomi Epps Let’s face it, ladies. The two worst feelings in a relationship are: 1. Being cheated on. and, 2. The feeling that you are being taken for granted by the man you are dedicati…
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How to Make Your Relationship Cheater Proof- Part 2: Why Men Cheat
Written By: Quentin Witt They say that knowing is half the battle. So exactly why do men cheat? There are a variety of reasons, but the ones listed below are the three most prominent. Watch out for…
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The Truth About Why So Many Beautiful, Educated, and Successful Women Are Still Single
So last night I struck up a conversation with a young woman. She was insanely beautiful, smart, no signs of ratchetness, and had her own money… A dream come true for almost any man. I expecte…
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Is The Ghost Of Previous Sex Partners Ruining Your Relationship?
Written By: Naomi Epps A new study claims that people — especially women — who have multiple sexual partners before getting married, report unhappier marriages down the line. Research f…
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Relationship Help: Advice for Building Relationships that are Healthy, Happy and Satisfying
Helpful tips for building and keeping loving relationships that are healthy, happy and satisfying.
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Why Do We Try To Make Our Partners Jealous?
Written by: Janae Justice When two people are in a relationship and problems start to come up, sometimes one of them will do something spiteful to the other in order to make them jealous. For the s…
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Goal Setting When You’re Dating: Don’t Settle for Less!
Regardless of what people might say, you have to set goals in dating. This is something I didn’t always excel at. Don’t make that mistake. Don’t be one of those people who are afr…
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Are You Being Pressured into Having Sex?
Four thoughtful responses to the pressure to have sex. What to think, what to say, and when to say it.
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6 Social Media Rules Happy Couples Follow…
Written By: Erica James Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and other social media platforms have definitely opened up the floodgates on our social lives. It started off as something that people used to …
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How To Rebuild Trust Once It’s Broken (It Is Possible)
Written By: J. Minor Cheating or lying will definitely cause you to lose the trust of your significant other. It will also trigger feelings of anger, disappointment, and sadness. Most men find it h…
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Dating After Divorce: 3 DOs and 3 DON’Ts
Written by: Janae Justice Divorce is a very unfortunate life occurrence. It’s devastating for both parties no matter who was the most at fault for ruining the relationship. When children are invol…
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6 Tips To Make Your Wedding Elegant But Affordable
Written by: Naomi Epps I gotta be the one you touch, baby I gotta be the one you love….How’s that sound for a wedding song? Or better yet, for your wedding song? The big day has finally arriv…
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5 Signs You Shouldn't Be Getting Married (Even if the Wedding Is Already Planned)
Some couples weren't meant to be married to each other. Ever. That's a cold, harsh thing for a wedding planner to say - heck, I need clients - but I thin...
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5 Signs Your Relationship Is Falling Victim To “Grass Is Greener Syndrome”
Written By: Janae Justice I haven’t done any writing lately referencing the Bible but I think I’ll go back today. You see, this is a subject that is close to my heart. I jumped right on…